Don't know what to wish for!!!

Life is so unpredictable. I think humans try to make their life better by doing a lot of things but the truth is that we are merely the puppets in the hands of God. He is our creator and our story writer.

 I think God has his own way of doing things and we are no one to judge his decisions. All events that happen in our life are for some reason or another. We may not be happy due to those events but gradually we like those events. We are complex beings and we are never satisfied with what we have. Finding happiness in them is not easy but that's we should be doing.

 We seldom take things for granted. We always wish for more (more money, more fame, more success, more happiness, etc.) But is it really necessary? We are running in a rat race to win from everyone but is it required? Why can't we be just happy and contented with everything? Why do we have a feeling for more than what we currently have? Why are we so conceited?

 Happiness is very subjective. I may be happy with some things but others may be unhappy due to those things. Everyone wants to be happy but we don't understand that if we don't get sadness then we may not understand the real meaning of happiness.

 I wished a lot of things in life and finally got them. I have been lucky in that way. But now when my wishes are fulfilled, I regret asking for those wishes because I feel I was happy without them.

 As of now, I am happy and sad at the same time. Happy because I got what I wanted and sad because I think my wishes were worthless. So basically I am mad because even though I got my wishes fulfilled I don't want those wishes to be fulfilled now. God!? How complex can I be!

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