Purple Thoughts

        It is said "Never Judge a Book by its Cover" but that's what people seldom do. People judge others by their facial expressions, language, the tone of talking, appearance, etc. in short by their verbal and nonverbal behavior.

        And there are some people who not only judge people by their appearance but also behave to them in that manner. I think this is totally wrong. Yes, we may have perceptions about a person (who doesn't) but behaving with them in the wrong manner is totally wrong.

       Just like everyone, even I have random thoughts about random people but I never behave with them in that manner. I keep my doors open to everyone and let the thought process go on. As the saying goes, one cannot judge a person by their behavior. It is necessary that we give treat everyone equally and mix up with them. To conclude, I would say that first, we need to spend time with that person, or for that matter everyone and then decide our preferences.

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